How to keep your boyfriend love you in an LDR?
Bothered by the survey which tells that 75% of couples in a long-distance relationship fall down? Indeed it bothers me but not quite. Though 75% is high in its rate, there's still 25% to hope for. Surely then you as a girl have in mind that query on how to be part of that 25% successful couples in a long-distance relationship. You as a girl are asking how to keep your guy love you.
We, I and my partner, are in an LDR for a year already.
Questions: what keeps me staying in love with her? Why do I stay in love with her and do not make her cry by looking another lady? Here are ten of how she keeps me love her.
1. She communicates regularly.
Communication helps me know she's still mine. Even how loyal and tough a man is, no regular communication with his partner really makes him crazy that much. He will have plenty of premonitions why his girl has lost communication with him. Thus, communication places itself at the first of my list for without it, couples whether apart or not will not last long.
2. She trusts me much.
She trusts me that I will never cheat. Isn't it that beautiful in a relationship to know that your partner trust you even when she does not have any idea what you do and where your whereabout? We can only love someone we trust. Thus, I know that her love for me is overflowing for her trust to me is as well overflowing.
3. She makes me happy.
It's been since I met her that I became happy more than before. This happiness that I feel heightens my love for her. I love her not because she is beautiful, smart, and kind. I love her because I became a different person because of her. I am happy more than ever I can remember. The happiness she gives to me builds the foundation of our relationship firm and immovable.
4. She gives effort to the relationship.
I had been surprised to what my girlfriend did on my birthday. She greeted me happy birthday at exactly 12 midnight. I know it's not that extraordinary. But, knowing that she risked her life waiting outside her house just to greet me fueled my love for her. The effort she did on my birthday was the greatest gift I ever had in my entire life.
5. She assures me that I am the only one.
Problems always arise in a relationship. It is the bitter spice that one way or another makes the relationship strong. And, one source of the problem in a relationship especially in an LDR is jealousy. Assuring your partner that he is the one and only, that you do not wish to look for other else, makes him staying in love with you.
6. She prides me to her family and friends.
Another reason why I love my girl very much is the way she talks about me to her family and friends. Isn't it wonderful to hear your girl sharing to you how she brags you to her friends and family as that you are the only word she can utter to her family and friends? Yes! She did that. Sometimes I just hanged flattered every time her friends and sisters reported to me how my girl was so proud she has me.
7. She handles my sentiments.
Misunderstanding is always behind every relationship. But, what matters is how you both handle your misunderstandings. I really admire my girl 'cause every time I am a bit mad for we haven't contacted each other for two or more days, she can appease me easily. Handling your guy without raising a voice forks his love to you.
8. She defends me to her friends.
There are lots of fungi in the relationship. There are people who tell you that your partner from the other side of the globe is not that serious as you are. This is frequent in our relationship, especially to my girlfriend. My girlfriend's friends always tell her that I have here another girl and that I am cheating her. But, she's always responding them that she trusts me and that she believes I cannot do it. Knowing this always makes me guilty to cheat her.
9. She's loyal.
I love her 'cause I know no matter what happens, she always loves me back. She's forever loyal. To know that your girl has that immeasurable love for you makes you love her in return and never look for another one. A real guy reciprocates the love he receives from his girl. Knowing that your girl does her very best just to keep you the only guy in her life should and must also make the guy be loyal to her.
10. She shows how much she loves me.
How does your girl show her love? The answer to this question is not that to put a concern. Her love must be repaid with loyalty, respect and love. The reason why she shows her love is that she finds you important to her. She cannot attempt to lose you. Is this not enough to love her back?
There's nothing to be afraid of in a long-distance relationship. 75% is for those who are just playing. 25% is for those who have commitment. Where are you? Is your long-distance relationship just a game or it's a commitment?
How to keep your boyfriend love you in an LDR?
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