LDR Problem Solved: Lack of Communication

No physical contact. No hugs and kisses. No sight (since we don’t do skype.) No holding-hands-while-walking. No close funny moments. But, all those sad part of the long-distance relationship we have to accept. Those are the price we have to pay with this pain-dwelling situation.

Though we can’t do all those stuff, what is important is that we don’t lose regular communication. But, what if this most important factor of a relation will start running down? All the relationship whether long-distance or not will surely die.

This happened to us. We didn’t have any communication for about three days. No call. No text. No hi and hellos. No I love you’s. She didn’t go to the port, the only area in their place where there is a signal. I didn’t have any idea what happened to her. I didn’t know why she was away for no reason. She didn’t give me any hint why she couldn’t go. This was unusual. We always have contacted each other regularly. I was starting to be angry and thinking of negative premonitions.

What then kept me holding? I trust her so much. Trust is what you need when this situation comes. I have to trust her that she just had something important to do. I have to trust her that she just couldn’t go to the port ‘cause there was a typhoon. Actually, there was a typhoon at that time. I have to trust her that she just couldn’t go for a reason that she was not feeling well.

Indeed, her reasons were she was reviewing for the upcoming exam; there was a typhoon, and she had a period that it gave her so much pain.

Trust is what you need when all of a sudden she loses communication for no reason. You may not have hugs and kisses. You may not do holding-hands-while-walking. You may not have close funny moments. You may lose communication for a short while unusually. But, you may not lose trust. Trust will save your relationship.